Giving an Amazing Hand Job.

Confused about how to give a fantastic handjob? Handjobs can be difficult business. Choking the chicken too hard can cause your man to yelp in pain, and a soft, floppy grip can lead to frustration. Grip isn't the only important aspect of a handjob. Technique matters too. Rhythm, pressure and wetness all factor into giving him the best hand job of his life.

Start out by teasing. Stroke his penis through his jeans with your fingertips or the palm of your hand. Slowly unveil his penis, being careful to avoid his zipper. If he's hard but trapped within his jeans or underwear, simply pull his underwear out (or better yet, off) so he can stand at attention. Trace your fingertips lightly over his penis from base to tip. Alternate between admiring his penis and making eye contact. He'll be putty in your hands, and ready for the next step.

Lube him up. You can lick your hand to work saliva over his penis, or preferably, pour a slick personal lubricant into your hand. Wetness is arguably the most important part of a handjob. It makes it about 100 times easier for you to maneuver and feels much better for him. 

Take your position. Kneel in front of him while he stands, kneel between his legs when he's reclining or have him straddle your hips, with you lying down. Whatever position makes you feel sexy and gives him a good view of the action.

Start stroking. A very basic grip involves making the "okay" sign with your forefinger and thumb around his penis, the tips touching. You can modify this by wrapping your entire hand around his penis. To add more stimulation, use two hands.

Techniques. Check out Hand Job Advice, one of our sister sites (NSFW). This site shows videos of different hand job techniques practiced on dildos. Watching these sexy techniques is a great way to learn them. A basic stroke is the Old Faithful. Hold him around the base of his shaft, and slowly glide your fingers up to the head, tightening your grip as you move up. As you head back down, loosen your fingers. Vary this stroke by giving a slippery twist of your wrist at the head of the penis.

Learn his sensitive spots. The head of the penis is the most sensitive portion. The frenulum, the ridge on the underside of his penis where the shaft and head connect, responds especially well to stimulation. Lightly stroke this area with your lubed thumb. Add a few tongue flicks here to really excite him. You can also try cupping his balls or stroking his taint with your free hand. Ask him if he's into this kind of stimulation. Some guys love it; some guys find it distracting.

An explosive finish. Once you find a good rhythm, you'll see his muscles start tensing and hear his breathing accelerate. This means continue whatever you're doing, exactly as you're doing it. For men and women, getting from the brink to orgasm requires continuous, rhythmic stimulation. So at this point, whatever you're doing is working. Don't change a thing!

Most importantly, communicate with your partner. You can always ask him to show you how he masturbates. Watch his style and mimic it, adding what you've learned here. You'll be a hand job expert in no time. A pubic service of ShopInPrivate.